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These are processes, not static entities. They are called “states” because people tend to get stuck in them. When viewed as processes, it can be observed that a person in a very extreme state of consciousness shows vestiges of a more normal state, while even the most normal-seeming person has little bits of more extreme states in their flow of experience and behavior.
The ability to meta-communicate is a defining feature in the specturum of states. The extent that someone can meta-communicate indicates whether it is an altered or extreme state.
The less able and/or willing a person is to metacommunicate about their experience, the more troublesome the associated state of consciousness can be. This is the difference between a person saying “I am experiencing paranoid thoughts,” versus someone who is in the experience of “they’re after me.”
~Arnold Mindell
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Maraya Karena is a Process Work Diplomate, Counselor and Consciousness Researcher based in Portland, Oregon.
“My passion is to study consciousness itself. To develop tools and models that support us to navigate everyday life. To make the reality we share more reflective of who and what we truly are. To find the pulsing, living heart of this life journey. And to engage with it fully and completely. I explore poetry, dance, embodiment, sex, social issues, futurism, philosophy, mysticism, joy and agony all to learn a little bit more about what is really going on and how we can most authentically express ourselves.”
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